I work with male clients for a variety of reasons:
perhaps you are looking for support with ejaculatory control or erectile dysfunction issues, you might be seeking a deeper connection to your physical and emotional body or maybe you just enjoy the relaxation and indulgence of a deeply focussed massage.
All of these, and more, are great reasons for seeking out a session.
My intention is to create a space where you can experience authentically receiving - without expectation, without judgement, without performance.
Just connecting to your body and the vast possibilities for pleasure that it holds. You will leave a session feeling softer, more open and more grounded in your body.
This outline of the Sensual Massage treatment can only be an outline as each massage is as individual as the client is.
But while each massage is different,
some things are constant
Many clients have kindly told me that the sensual massage they receive from me is in a different league to other sensual massages they have experienced.
My Sensual Massage is not a sexual service, but a true tantric experience. It is based on the fundamental principles of tantra, in that energy liberated by traditional massage is channeled through skilled stimulation of areas of the body typically excluded from "traditional" massage.
Sensual massage should be seen as a natural progression from traditional massage rather than a particular form of massage in its own right.
The addition of different and more sensual techniques, as well as specific tantric techniques, enhances the massage experience to a level not possible in traditional massage.
This allows the client to reach an almost meditative focus, and achieve a deeper level of relaxation and relief from stress.
"The massage was professional, thorough, sensual and erotic, fulfilling all expectations"
Every sensual massage starts with a short tantric ritual to "ground" you, followed by a relaxing full body traditional massage.
I gradually introduce more and more light touches of your erogenous zones, becoming more direct, and more and more arousing, as the massage progresses.
I watch your reactions to my touches and adjust the massage accordingly, using breath control, meditation and pressure to control your response.
The important thing about true sensual massage is that the whole body is involved, the techniques I use stimulating the body and liberating sexual energy even before direct arousal.
You will not get this from a short session in a massage parlour, nor from an untrained "masseuse". I start to introduce tantric techniques and sensual touch within the first few minutes, I aim to have your whole body fully aroused and tingling by the time you turn over half way through the massage, and I may bring you to several peaks before eventual release.
The massage as a whole can be a very emotional experience.
A more detailed description of Sensual Massage for Men is available by e-mail on request.
Sensual Massage for Men Standard
What you don't get: a quick back rub, turn over, a quick front rub, play with the boy bits, thank you, hope to see you again
What you do get: a full whole body massage by a qualified professional, insured masseuse, who will talk to you first to find out all about you and your needs, and concentrate initially on those areas of your body frequently affected by the stress of busy lives, reducing the tension and encouraging you to relax and forget everyday life for a while.
The relaxing traditional massage, incorporating tantric techniques from the start, will very gradually become more and more sensual, building your sensitivity and arousal, perhaps through a series of peaks, to a natural release, after which you will have a few minutes to rest and become calm before you return to the world outside
Sensual Massage for Men
Essentially a deeply relaxing,
full body, holistic massage, sensual massage devotes additional attention
to erogenous areas of your body building arousal and deepening
the relaxation at the same time -
The aim of sensual massage is to achieve a state of complete relaxation and relief from tension and stress.
During a sensual massage, the whole of your body will be involved; youll breathe deeply and easily; the mind will calm, allowing negative emotional energy, tension and stress to be channeled through your genitals and released in a controlled way.
In most, but not all, cases, this may include physical release, but the key remains the balance of sensations throughout the massage.
In an effort to maintain that balance I use a variety of tantric techniques to delay and enhance release, helping you to experience intense, perhaps multiple peaks before eventual release.
Most clients enjoy this process as it heightens sensitivity and awareness of your own body.
Deep breathing is also very important to the channeling and release of energy.
Focusing on your breath and the physical sensation is also highly relaxing and allows you to stay in the moment and not get caught up in the thoughts that clutter the mind.
Women can use the breath to relax, focus and feel sensory input more intensely; men can use the breath to forestall release.
Enjoying a deeply relaxing, full body massage is a great way to push away the thoughts, clear your mind and give yourself over to the pleasure.
At the end of your sensual massage, I will be happy to leave you to rest a few minutes and savour the profound peace and contentment you will experience while allowing you to slowly "come back" to the present.
When you are ready to get up again, you can if you wish ask for a shower to refresh you and remove any excess oil on your skin.
A more detailed description of Male Sensual Massage is available by e-mail on request.
If you would like to have your wife or partner present during the sensual massage this is perfectly acceptable.
Sensual Massage for Men
Why do I strongly recommend 90 minutes or longer?
New clients sometimes ask why I strongly recommend 90 minutes or longer for sensual massage.
The advantage of 90 minutes is very simple - you get the same great massage but it is much more leisurely, you should be able to relax more deeply, and the arousal is more gradual and prolonged.
Time seems to pass quickly during a really good massage - quite often a client will express surprise when I tell them half-way through that it's time to turn over!
4-Hand or Male-to-Male Sensual Massage
You are welcome to have your sensual massage from just me, but increasingly often I am asked for another therapist to join me giving a 4-hand sensual massage.
It would seem that we offer a safe environment for men (and women) who would simply like to explore the touch of a sympathetic, understanding man on their body, and we are pleased to welcome them. You don't have to be gay or bisexual to enjoy our 4-hand massage!
Because there are two masseurs devoting their expertise and skill to you at the same time, 4-hand sensual massage allows you to experience extra and more varied techniques, deeper relaxation, and more gradual and prolonged arousal.
The main thing about 4-hand massage is that the mind eventually gives up trying to follow the sensations and the client sinks deeper and deeper into simply relaxing.
Most clients also find sensual stimulation of multiple erogenous zones at the same time highly arousing, and the combination of profound relaxation and sexual arousal can be ecstatic and long-lasting.
Please indicate when you contact me whether or not you would like my husband to be available for a 4-hand massage - there is currenty no extra charge.
Similar guidelines for touching during a massage apply to my husband if he is working with me.
Detailed descriptions of male and female 4-hand sensual massage are available on request.
External prostate massage, by massage of the perineal area, is part of the tantric techniques I use during Sensual Massage for Men.
Internal prostate massage as a tantric technique is available on request but I do not automatically include it during your first appointment with me.
This is because whilst some men love it and find it contributes to arousal or even release, some men find it uncomfortable, have reservations about having it, or have medical reasons for avoiding it.
I am happy to discuss, or explain, prostate massage with you in advance by e-mail or when you arrive for your appointment.
If you already know that you would like prostate massage and have no contraindicating medical condition please be sure to tell me when you first contact me.
What is a Tantric Massage ?
Tantric Massage is a ritual of receiving sensual 'kundalini' (sexual) energy and is often the first step in learning to be a sexual being without going into fantasy. The entire experience celebrates the whole being that you are, and encourages you to completely relax into a state ready to receive both touch and pleasure. It teaches you how to truly feel your body as it is being touched and aroused sexually and to be in the present moment, aroused and alive.
The Tantric massage will make you feel as if you are in a trance, where physical boundaries dissolve, time disappears, worries and problems no longer seem important or are forgotten altogether and it is truly an amazing experience.
Your entire body is gently massaged using warm aromatic oil. Neck, shoulders, back, buttocks, legs and feet. Arms, fingers, chest, abdomen, pubic mound, inner thighs and toes. Nothing escapes attention. Your energy flow is stimulated and senses awakened as your body's sensitivity increases and leads you into the ritual of the sacred Lingam massage
What is a Lingam Massage ?
Lingam is the Sanskrit word for the penis. It literally means "Wand of Light" Lingam massage is the ritual of honoring and healing this part of the body. In this ritual, the lingam is massaged not from a place of creating arousal and orgasm, but from an intention to be in joy and wonder of this beautiful part of the body.
Groin, inner thighs, scrotum and perineum are all sensually massaged. Slowly and carefully a hand is then placed around the lingam. Massaging all the way down to the root, varying the depth, speed, and pressure this is a massage which will nurture, honour and relax both you and your lingam.
Lingam massage will often bring more sensitivity and aliveness to the penis. Difficulty with premature ejaculation or impotency can often be healed through loving nurturing of the lingam. Through this sacred ritual, you will learn to release old beliefs that are keeping you from your full sexual enjoyment and full potential as a lover .
A sensually erotic style massage designed to balance the Seven main chakra energy points of the body, performed by Male Masseur, ITEC qualified and insured, member of CThA with over 15 years' professional experience.
Lying on your back and concentrating
mainly on the front only, this massage incorporates energy work on the
main chakra points to balance the bodys energy and concentrates
on the head, chest, legs and inner thighs.
These tantric techniques can help you to control orgasms (for men with premature ejaculation issues and can also help with erectile dysfunction problems as an erection is not required) or for men and women who want to prolong lovemaking.
Performed on a massage table
with the use of blended massage oil or lotion suitable for all skin types.
Relaxing full body massages for Gay Men and Male Couples,
Aiming to provide you with the best discreet male to male service by ensuring you are relaxed, comfortable and safe:
For Gay, Bisexual, Bi curious
You can choose from a variety
of massage services.
Relaxation Holistic Swedish
Massage for Gay Men
So come along, Relax, Rejuvenate,
Refresh your body & mind.
This is a full body massage
performed fully nude by Male Masseur, ITEC qualified and insured, member
of CThA with over 15 years' professional experience.
Mainly using Swedish-style of long, flowing massage strokes, the massage also combines elements of Reiki and Shiatsu moves to help ground and transfer the bodys universal energy.
Pressure intensity can be suited to your needs, though this is not a deep tissue massage (also available). This provides an ideal way to reduce stress, relax and experience release. It also helps to improve blood flow and circulation and help remove the build up of bad toxins in the body.
Usually performed on a massage
table with the use of blended massage oil or lotion suitable for all skin
Let your tensions melt away while you enjoy being pampered with this relaxing, sensual naturist massage.
An all over the body massage version of the standard massage by Male Masseur, ITEC qualified and insured, member of CThA with over 15 years' professional experience. A sensual full body massage including the erotic areas such the Lingam and Yoni.
Mainly uses the Swedish-style of long, flowing massage strokes, the massage also combines elements of Reiki, Shiatsu and Tantric moves to help ground and transfer the bodys universal energy.
Pressure intensity can be suited to your needs, though this is not a deep tissue massage (also available), being a more sensual based. This provides an ideal way to reduce stress, relax. It also helps to improve blood flow and circulation and help remove the build up of bad toxins in the body.
Performed on a massage table
with the use of blended massage oil or lotion suitable for all skin types.
Let your body explode with
mental and physical delight while you enjoy being pampered with this sensual
This massage can be performed as a Naturist Massage.